Episode 454:

Hello, and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design. Everyone, I’m your host, Nicole Laino, and I think this will be a quick one. This was actually something that came up on. We did a Masterclass on the 2027 Change, Humanities, Evolution, and how to lead through that change. And then we did. We had a VIP Q&A. And I was talking with one of the members of our human Sign Authority lab, and she was asking me a question, and I was like, this is actually such a fundamental thing that happens with people, and it happens all the time. And this is why so many really talented, truly worthy people get stuck in this whole business thing in the putting yourself out there. And there’s a couple of things that I want to say about this. So I’m going to. I’m riffing mostly. 

I don’t have a lot of structure behind this episode, but what I’m going to break down is this basically this big problem that I see. I’ll give you a few examples of how it shows up with the different type. And because it stretches across types, it just. The way that you find your way through it with human design is a little bit different, but they all kind of boil down to the same thing. We’re getting stuck just for different reasons. And I want to break that down, and I just kind of want to share why your work is so important and why it’s so important that you overcome this. So first, let’s just say what this is about. This is most people are misdiagnosing fear for misalignment, and they never learn the difference between these two things. 

And this is such a core element to why people stay stuck, whether you’re stuck at square one or you are stuck going to the next level. And like, that’s millions and millions of dollars, whatever it is we have. Sometimes human design can become a crutch for people where they’ll say something like, I misaligned. So let me. I’ll break down a little bit about how this started with the client who came with this problem. So in the 2027 change masterclass, I outlined what’s going to happen in 2027 as we understand it, as it was, you know, as the knowledge was given to us. And really emphasized why it’s so important for everybody who maybe was classified as woo or weird or out there or too spiritual or too esoteric. 

Why our time very well may be coming, because I think this work is going to be very needed. I think we’re already seeing people, accept me, more alternative ways of dealing with things and approaching life now than we did certainly 10 years ago. But even five years ago. I have friends who are asking me about human design that I never thought would ever be interested in what I do. And now they are, because these things are making their way into the mainstream. Why? Because the old ways aren’t working and people are really feeling that. So that was the 2027 Change Workshop. I got into the nitty gritty of why these changes are happening and what it will look like and why certain elements are going to be even more important in the future. If you want that workshop, you can still get it. 

That’s for sale. All you have to do is just DM me the word “Phoenix” on Instagram. I’m @nicolelainoofficial. We’ll send you the link and you buy the recording. It’s just as good. But in this Q and A, the client came to me and they were saying, well, what if we’re not ready? Like, I feel like I have. I’ve written these things, I have it all there, but what if they’re not ready till 2027? Like, I still feel like I’m not ready. Like, I go to put it out there and I can’t do it. And after digging into it a little bit, this person was a manifesting generator. And after digging into it a little bit, what we determined and how you can determine this for yourself is what is the core driver here? And for her, she was. 

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In response to the things that she was getting, she took action. She wrote something, did the thing, but then putting it out there, the outside world, she was worried whether they would accept it, whether it would be blessed or it would be met with ridicule, critique and all of that, and. Or criticism rather than critique. I think we can handle criticism. Feels a little bit different, right? But she was worried about that. So she did not take action. So she’s like, you know, I feel like there’s a misalignment there. And this is such a core thing, because people are now, because we have gotten so into finding our alignment and not doing the things that are misaligned. So for generators and manifesting generators, we’re not supposed to do things out of obligation. We’re not supposed to do things because we have to. 

We’re not supposed to do things and force it. It should feel easy. A really common misconception is that if you’re aligned, it’s easy. It’s not. That’s not guaranteed. Because really what was happening here is she was just scared. She was scared of putting the stuff out there. That’s not misalignment. Fear is not misalignment. Fear is fear of stretching yourself beyond. And that’s conditioning. So if she gets this response and she follows the response and she creates from it and she does the thing and she’s like, oh, it’s all there. It’s all there. Like, I. I got it. But then she goes to put it out and she’s like, wait, will they like it? Will they think I’m crazy? Will it be too weird for people? Will they all run away from me? That’s conditioning. 

That is the outside world influencing you and stopping you from doing what is correct according to your strategy and authority. Right? That’s Human Design 101. And so many people come to me looking for the authority matrix and the genius brand stuff and all of that. And that’s amazing work. I’m not at all. I get it. I do it, you know, created this little cocktail of things and have been teaching it for so long because I believe in it. But if you’re not following the fundamentals, then that just becomes window dressing. If you’re not in alignment and you’re not doing the things that feel right, you are throttling yourself. You are holding yourself back from your ultimate purpose and potential, which is what human design is supposed to be keeping you from. Because what that person did and what I see so many people do. 

We have projectors. I’m not getting recognized for something. I’m not getting invitations. I’m not getting this. They are. They’re just too scared to really see it. So they come up with excuses for why they’re not getting them. They’re not the ones that they wanted. They’re looking for a certain type of invitation, and they’re not paying attention to the ones that they’re getting. Why? Because they’re bitter and they feel like they’re not being recognized. So they’re not even seeing all the ways that they are deal with that. And everything else will start to take care of itself. But this fear, the fear is if you are afraid. Fear is something we move through, period. We are meant to move through fear. It’s how we grow misalignment. Is something we move away from. 

This is discomfort is not a sign to stop discomfort when something feels like a no in your body, like, I don’t want to do that’s different. But I’m scared to do it. That is something to overcome and I understand this. That something can be correct for you and still be uncomfortable. And I understand how scary that can be, especially when we’re pushing boundaries. I talk about like 2027 and I talk about out there stuff and I had a trust that I would find my audience. There was a time where I didn’t have one. I think people look at me now and I mean, I’m not nearly as big as some people, but I have a successful business. I have a. You know, thousands of people listen to this show. I’m very grateful. 

But there was a time when 50 people listened to this show and they didn’t do it all the time. There was a time when nobody paid attention to my social media posts. There was a time when all of that. So I get it. I understand how scary it can be to put yourself out there and to do that consistently. And I understand how difficult it can be, especially when we’re challenging our identity, our conditioning, our external expectations of ourselves or that others have put on us. I understand that this can be difficult and really uncomfortable, but we have to remember that’s how we grow. Because a lot of people will feel the fear. They’ll stop. They will interpret that stopping that fear as like their intuition telling them that something is incorrect for them. 

They decide that it’s not aligned and they actually move away from their purpose rather than toward it. And that’s not what we want. And that’s not following human design. Human design can bring you back to it. You just keep coming back to your strategy and authority, your place. Reflectors will get scared that if they don’t grab something now, nothing, you know, everything changes all the time. I just have to decide because I’m running out of time. Not your way. It’s not your way. And you’re letting fear drive the car. And that’s not the way you have to push through that fear. And that’s where you find your grounding. That’s where you become unshakable, is by walking through the fear, walking with it. So fear is often just signaling to you that the conditioning of the outside world is being challenged. 

And this is where growth is calling us. It’s not a sign to stop. It’s just friction. So that feeling like that misconception that because it’s aligned, it will be easy. No, in fact, because it’s aligned, it’s calling you to a higher level of yourself. It can almost guarantee you that it will be scary big moves that stretch us, that move us toward what is meant for us. Especially when we have big dreams and we feel like we have a big purpose on our heart. It’s. It’s going to be uncomfortable. And if you stop every time it gets uncomfortable, that’s why you’re not growing. It’s not because you’re misaligned now. You want to be very careful. You want to make sure that you want these things, that they feel aligned. 

And that’s exactly the discernment that we want to create within ourselves, is to really understand what your body feels like, what your strategy and authority feels like, what it feels like to be in alignment. And a lot of times we find alignment through the misalignment. We find, you know, when we make the wrong turn, we’re like, oh, wait, this is the wrong way. And that’s okay. People, a lot of times are very afraid to make the wrong turn. I still make wrong turns. I tell that to people all the time. I’m like, I’m not perfect at this. I make wrong turns all the time. I’ve just gotten really good at noticing almost right away when I’ve made a wrong turn and I correct course very quickly. So. So I’m not taken off course. I am not draining myself, moving further away from alignment. 

I notice I feel it immediately, or pretty close to immediately, and I redirect and I come back to where I belong. That’s possible for all of you. It just takes practice and it takes actually living this and not just learning about it, not just listening to podcasts, not just. It’s really about applying this and really digging into it. So if you are interested in this, if this is something that you are committed to, about living your purpose and stretching yourself beyond your fears, beyond the conditioning, beyond what you thought was possible before, and really reaching for your purpose and you feel like you have a big one on your heart, then I really encourage you to check out the Human Design Authority Lab. This is a really cool place. We have such an amazing community already. We’re so excited about what’s happening in there. 

You get free masterclasses every month with your membership. You get the VIP and the regular masterclass, so you get the two levels of it. So you’re always getting those whatever extra lessons I do or Q&As and things that I add on to the masterclasses that are just for the lab members or you get it with your membership. You also get there’s core content in there that gets you started with. The whole point behind the Human Design Lab is getting you in alignment with yourself, in action with it and getting you more visible and putting out your authentic message. This, this is about authenticity in motion. This is about getting yourself out there. 

So whether you are a human design enthusiast and you’re like I’m really just about my path, you can find a home in there and be really in love with what we do in there. But if you are also growing a business and you want to start incorporating human design, you’re sort of curious about how that works, check it out. It’s definitely that is the place for you as well. We do co working sessions every month where we build on what we are learning and what we are doing to get you into action around it again. That’s the whole point. We have guest speakers come in. It’s really cool. 

And then of course you get a whole community of people who are doing this to support you and to give you ideas, inspiration for how you can through their journey, how you can amplify yours as well. If you want information on that, just DM me the word “Lab” on Instagram. I’m nicolelainoofficial. We’ll send you the links or go to nicolelaino.com lab and we’ll send it to you over there. Thank you so much for being here. I appreciate you. And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human. So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design. We’ll see you next time. 

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