Your incarnation cross is the piece of Human Design everybody wants and almost nobody uses well. It gets treated like an assignment. A job title handed down from the chart, with a right answer you either found or missed.

Nicole spent her whole life wanting to be an actor. She is not an actor. For years she carried the question quietly underneath everything: did she miss the thing she was here to do. If your purpose was a career, and you never got the career, what does that make the last twenty years.

In this episode she tells the story she usually keeps out of the public teaching. The kid who wanted to be in movies, and what she was actually after. The years of loving the craft and being terrible at the business. And the moment the cross she could not make sense of started making sense in a completely different life than the one she was aiming at.

She also gets into why she shares a cross with Bernie Sanders and with Pink, why millions of people share yours, and why that changes nothing about what yours is asking of you. There is a reason two people with identical purpose language build lives that look nothing alike, and it is not the part of the chart most people go looking at.

The thing Nicole wants you to take out of this: your cross has been calling you your entire life, in ways you have already lived. She lays out what it actually takes to hear it, and it is close to the opposite of what most people do when they go hunting for their purpose.

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