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Hello, and welcome to the limitless entrepreneur podcast. I’m your host, Nicole Laino. And I’m here with one of our many episodes, this is a new thing that we’re doing on Mondays where we drop a short little episode that’s like maybe five or 10 minutes to just kick your week off, right. And this is my opportunity to kind of share some little tips, advice, just things that are coming through for me, and this is one of my honestly, what I’m going to share with you today is one of the simplest, yet most profound pieces of wisdom advice that that I use literally every day, I think of this every day, I use this, this has changed my life. And it changed the lives of my of my clients, I use this with my private clients, I use this in the limitless entrepreneur program. Inside every program that I use, this is a very big part of the becoming program as well the digital course that we have, which is like a 30 day journey to becoming your next level self. And this is a huge part of that. Now, this is something that I took this concept is something that comes from A Course in Miracles, which is a which is a text that basically a path to enlightenment. It’s very long, it’s a process. And it’s meant to be kind of a way of life, it changes the way that you show up and it changes the way you look at the world.
So very similarly, this advice that I’m going to give you this, this, this little bit of wisdom, something to take away. Very much like the quote that Dr. Wayne Dyer said that he famously said, you know, if you change the way that you look at things, the things that you look at change, this is sort of kind of expanding on that or maybe getting to the root of it. And this is something that I I say to my clients, and they get it, but it’s something that we go through over and over and over again, it’s something that in our coaching, I’m always pointing out, because this takes time to implement, because we’re so used to doing the opposite of this. So or forgetting this little bit.
So here’s this, this little piece that I’m going to give you today. Nothing in life, nothing has any meaning, except the meaning that you put on it. Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning that we put on it. Now, the meaning I mean that I mean, our kids don’t have any meaning except the meaning that we put on them. Meaning that to us, my son is the greatest thing, the most important thing in my world, to somebody else, the meaning is different. My son is not the meaning. Because even though somebody else might look at him as this precious child, it’s different than the meaning that he has to me. And then our things our homes, our people might be able to empathize empathize with us about losing something or bad experience something or about getting something or about having this incredible moment. But it’s different. Their perspective on it, their connection to it is different.
So the meaning that we put on things, everything is actually neutral. Everything is neutral. And if you can get to that place of neutrality and looking at things at everything as neutral, then you’re able to remain neutral. And when your energy is neutral, when you are not triggered, because the meaning you put on something is this means that I’m not going to be successful. This means that and we do that, right? We do that with our launches. We do that with sales, we do that we put things on a pedestal. Right. And we talked about that very recently on the show, putting things on pedestals. And I touched on this concept, but I wanted to hammer it home here.
Nothing has any meaning except the meaning that we put on it. So the meaning that you put on the launch the meaning that you put on this sale, the meaning that you put on creating this new offer. It’s affecting you and is it affecting you, you have a choice where you can put a negative meaning or you can remain neutral. Now we can also put a positive meaning on things but then be careful that you’re not putting it on a pedestal. Be careful that you’re not putting that thing you’re not building it up so much that if you don’t meet that expectation that you are disappointed and then you’ve created now you’ve dipped below neutral in your energy and this creates a pattern of expect dictation, or not meeting expectations, and then that fall. And then when we’re disappointed, it’s hard for us to pull ourselves up to do it again, to show up again, to show up in the same level of energy, it’s hard.
So what we want to get to is a point of being able to put positive meaning on everything, to be able to reframe, and look at our life through the through the lens of this is all working out. For me, this is all positive in some way, I’m able to create amazing things, the meaning of this is great, this, the meaning of this is I’m on the right track. Or even when we get something that’s that’s taking us off track, we say the meaning is that this is somehow leading me to exactly where I need to go, we want to be able to do that. But we also have to come into those to those moments where it doesn’t work out how we want, and being able to shift where we are flexible and malleable enough that we’re not putting things on a pedestal that we’re able to shift in the moment. And remain neutral, even when things don’t go our way.
And the best way that I know to do that is to remind ourselves, nothing has any meaning except the meaning that I put on it, I get to choose the meaning I get to decide. So what are you deciding in that moment? Are you deciding that this means everything is going to work out in your favor? Or does this mean certain doom? Does this mean it’s not? This can be really simple this can be I got a bad night’s sleep last night. Nothing has any meaning except the meaning that I put on it recognize that if you start making up a story in your mind, about the the way that your day is going to go, how productive you’re going to be how, what mood you’re going to be in anything that has to do with it, those are choices, you’re applying meaning I didn’t get a good night’s sleep last night, that means this is going to happen or this is not going to happen or this is going to be not as good, or it’s going to be great. We get to decide, we get to decide.
So take a look at the big moments and the little moments because it’s the little moments that actually we focus on those big ones. And maybe you’re able to reframe and the big moment. But can you reframe? Can you come back to neutral? Can you recognize that you have a choice? In the catching every red light on the way to the meeting, when you’re late? Can you recognize that you are creating those moments that you are creating your next moment with every choice that you make? So remember, nothing has meaning except the meaning that we put on it. Can you apply that to the little moments, because those are the ones that add up and create the big ones.
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