Episode 360

Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design, everybody. I’m your host, Nicole Leno, and today we are talking about, this is a question that I saw come up on my YouTube and it’s a question that’s come up a lot, but this recently came up on YouTube and I was like, this would be a great episode for the show.

Great conversation to have there because I think that a lot of people, including myself, have dealt with this and there’s like all things in human design we have. Some good information out there, and we have some not great information out there. And then the other thing that I wanna say is that I think a lot of people look for black and white answers from human design.

Okay, so I have this, it means this, right? And that’s just not where we usually get the best results. Human design, astrology, all of these type of modalities, they live in the gray, and therefore, those of us who maybe in a black and white world have not found ourselves there. So stop looking for the black and white.

Look in the gray. We’re all living in the gray, black and white eventually. Blows up in your face because if you’re all one thing and you’re counting on one thing, then that one thing is not there anymore. Everything falls apart. But if you live in that gray, if you can find comfort, stability, and trust in the gray, then suddenly everything feels figureoutable.

Everything feels manageable. Nothing feels all that scary. I call that I’ve got this energy I’m in. I’ve got this energy all the time. Why? Because the gray is mahome. It is my land. I am so good in the gray. And then we can play with all the different tools that are out there when we can navigate this mysterious, interesting world.

So the question. That came up when someone was asking what happens? Is it bad? Was really what they were asking. Is it bad if my conscious son and my conscious Earth are in an open center? Is it bad if my conscious son and my conscious Earth are in an open center? So let’s just start right there. There is no bad or good.

There is just it is, and a lot of us, when we get our chart, will find ourselves trying to, we usually we’re wishing it were something else. We are using it as validation for why our life was so hard and or trying to find answers in it that will help our life become easier. And the first thing we have to do is just say, well, this is what is.

Isn’t that interesting? Because everything is meant for you for some reason. Your soul chose for you to have this aspect, right? I’m digging into astrology. Now further, and looking at a natal chart in astrology is different than looking at a human design chart. So I’m taking some courses in that just to sort of get deep in my, understanding and my knowledge around that, because I feel like it will help me in all that I do.

And there’s some triggering stuff in there. It’s like, oh. But I have a lot of enemy planets that are sitting right next to each other. And so just recognizing that those are the things that are not wishing they were something else. Not getting mad at it, not wondering, how do I fix it? We don’t need to be fixed, but my conscious sun and my conscious earth are both in undefined centers.

They’re in the same undefined center, which adds oomph to the challenge that I have there. Right? So it’s not a bad thing, but when I first heard this, I absolutely did venture into that space of being like, oh my God, my life is gonna be so hard. And the truth is, is that I was already like 40 something years old when I found this.

My life had already been hard. Sometimes I think we’re looking for the chart to tell us like, what was the wrong turn we made, and oh, if we just knew this one thing, life would’ve been so much easier. And once I know it, then life will immediately take a turn for the better. And in my experience, that does happen.

It’s just usually we just have to have more patience and openness and surrender to it and be curious and explore it and see what lessons our soul came here to learn. What are the lessons that it chose? And our open centers are, and where we have gates defined in those open centers, whether they’re your prime gifts or not, any of them, they’re going to be lessons for you.

But let’s talk about conscious sun and conscious Earth. ’cause you might have one, you might have unconscious sun or earth in open centers. So yes. It’s probably gonna be a challenge for you. It’s probably gonna be something that, the analogy that I have for this, like for me, conscious sun, conscious earth, both in an undefined head center.

I look at that after I stopped being mad about it and feeling like I got dealt a raw deal and a crummy hand at life. After I got over that, I was like, no, I was given a horse that needed to be broken before I could ride it. But you know, all those movies in the eighties and nineties and stuff where they would be like, you know, did we break the horse?

And then the kid, it was a lot of kids in the movies and eighties and nineties, but the hero of the story, once they broke that horse, the bond between that person and that horse was unbreakable. They did amazing things together. They were this dynamic, crazy duo saving people and saving the world, or going on great adventures.

That’s how I look at an open center with your defined conscious sun, conscious earth, or one of your prime gifts. And when I say prime gifts, your conscious sun, conscious earth, unconscious sun, unconscious earth are considered your prime gifts in the gene keys I. So if you have any of those in an open center, can you choose to look at that and say, I was given a horse that needs to be broken, that I need to form a bond with, that I need to build trust with that it’s going to take me a little bit longer probably to learn how to ride this thing, but once I do, man, am I gonna be unstoppable?

Wow. Is this gonna be the key to everything? This is gonna open up doors. That would never have been possible if I didn’t do that work. I. Here’s what happens before you find a tool like human design, you are probably fighting against this and either hiding from it because the way that this is experienced, when you have a prime gift in an undefined center, what that really means is you’re not gonna have access to it all the time.

It’s not gonna be on all the time. My head center is not on all the time in its openness, reaching for new things to be inspired by waiting for the light bulb to go on, waiting for the lightning aha idea to strike. I. That’s what it’s doing. It’s waiting for all of that. And then in the transits, I’ll get a hookup to Gate 47 or I’ll get a hookup to gate four, where one of my prime gifts, or both of them at some points will be hooked up where I get those two channels and I get stability there.

And then I feel that, I feel that access to it. Or someone like my son comes in, my little boy, he’s got a defined head center. He comes in, I get. A feel for his definition there. I get a little bit of that. I will not say that. That always feels good. I will not say that. It always feels good to have my head centered, defined.

It doesn’t. Sometimes it feels like a lot. It’s a practice of getting to know myself and what happens when I get access to this. Sometimes it feels like a lot. It’s a pressure center. Feels like a lot. So if you have your conscious son in an open solar plexus, right? So say you’re somebody who’s not emotional, but your conscious sun is sitting in that open solar plexus, the final frontier for you, the terrain that your whole movie is gonna play out on.

The big battle scene of your life is gonna be in the world of emotions. Probably. I don’t know you, but I will say that you’ll probably have some real deep lessons with emotions, and then you look at what that gate is. Is it Gate 36 in an open emotional center? Is it Gate 22? Is it gate six? I don’t know.

Is it gate 30 where you’re always feeling like you’re being smacked in the face by fate, just the hand of God is coming in and wiping away everything for you. I have all these hopes and dreams. They just get destroyed by nothing that I have any control over. These are the ways that you are going to, eight it is is gonna tell you what that particular flavor of your lesson in that theme is gonna be.

If you have your conscious Sun Conscious Earth in the Open Root Center, it’s gonna be on the frontier of the root center. If you’re gonna have lessons with pressure in a different way, you’re gonna have to learn to master stress and creative energy, and trusting timing in a different way than everybody else.

That is gonna be such a core lesson for you. We can look at these aspects, we can look at these definitions and undefined aspects. As being curses or blessings, but really they are just telling us where our lessons are. Deconditioning in an open center where you have a prime gift, should be a high priority for you.

That should be something you are looking at. That should be something that you are paying very, very close attention to. If you haven’t downloaded our deconditioning guide already, please do that. This guide is so great, it’s free, it’s so simple and it can get you started. Just DM me the word decondition on Instagram.

I’m at Nicole Lano official. You can get that guide there and if you wanna take it a step further, we have actually just really something really, really cool. Tapping is what I use to decondition. Fast to start to really move the energy around our shadows, and this is how we do it faster than what they say in human design, which is that takes you seven years to decondition.

So I’ve released some core tappings that you can buy individually. So this is like the cheapest way for you to dive into deconditioning hardcore. If you’re interested in that, just DM me the word tapping. On Instagram, I’m at Nicole Leno official and we’ll send you the link right there to go purchase those.

Those are for purchase, but they’re really cheap and honestly, you wanna change your life. You have to make some investments, and this is like the tiniest, tiniest investment for something that is so valuable. So many of my clients always say that. They came for the human design, but it’s the tapping and the deconditioning library that I give them that shifts their whole world.

So please download the guide, the deconditioning guide, and then if you wanna go deeper, check out those tappings. Purchase the ones that resonate for you the most and that feel the most connected for you and for your design. But this is how we work with the chart. The chart isn’t something to just say, this is good, this is bad, and this is your lot in life.

So deal with it. The chart is there to help you navigate life better than you have up until now. Most of the people who are looking to human design for anything, if you’re curious about it, it’s probably because you either feel out of touch with yourself, you feel like you have untapped gifts, where you feel like you have potential that maybe you are not living up to, or maybe life has been tough.

Maybe you’re somebody who has more challenges in their chart, and it has been a challenge to figure out how to navigate that, this human design chart by diving into it and really doing the work behind it, not just looking for an answer, but looking for a process to help you find your answers to help you.

Move resistance in your life more easily. I had so much resistance around thought. I had a hard time really feeling creative. All the things that have to do with the head center, inspired by everything but so distracted. Just all of the things that we know. Being able to come up with answers to things quickly.

Being able to not get caught in my head, all of that. Those were lessons I had to learn that if I had found human design sooner. If I had found human design in my twenties and learned to master this aspect of my life, I can only imagine what I would’ve been able to do and achieve by the time I was this age.

But for some reason, I was meant to find it. Now, I was meant to find it when I found it, but kudos to everybody who’s 24 listening to this show, who’s diving into their chart and learning their lessons, seeing how they find their alignment, because it will open doors for you. That logic will not. So where do you have openness in your chart with defined centers?

Where do you have a white center with a defined gate in it or multiple defined gates? You start to look at your chart and if you have an open center, if you have a white center with lots of defined gates, then pay attention to that. It’s not just limited to prime gifts, although those are gonna tell you probably what are gonna be the most seductive for you.

But like if I look at somebody who has an open G center, that’s the diamond in the center of the chart. And I see that they have so many defined gates in that open center. I know that identity is going to be a thing for them. Environment and the way that they feel around people, how much they’re able to really connect with themselves as an individual.

They’re either going to be so great at it because they learned lessons early and they learned to break this horse to tame the stallion. They figured it out. So they are a master and they are magnetic as hell. These people who have that open center with tons of gates in it, this is a huge opportunity for you.

This is a place where you can make money. This is a place where you can make an impact. Why? Because you have mastered something. Truly. I can help people with confusion. I can help people with doubt. I can help people overcome their mental. Stuff. Those limiting beliefs and limiting mental processes that they have, their mind gets in the way of their success, their inability to see possibility.

Why? Because I’ve had to master it myself, and it is a daily practice for me. So now I can offer that to people. I have something real to offer them, and they feel that this is how we start to use it in our business. This is how we do it. But you have to embody that. You’ve gotta learn the lesson or you can’t sell the lesson.

You can’t sell mastery to something you haven’t mastered. Now, that’s not to say that we have to wait till we’re Buddha before we can sell something or offer something, but we have to be able to, with integrity, gauge whether we’re really ready to offer something or are we so desperate to have something to sell that we will sell anything.

Even if it’s not an integrity for us, gotta check ourselves. So I’m gonna keep this one short. I hope that you got value out of this. I hope that you’re looking at your chart. Go look at your chart, find those open centers. Look at your conscious, unconscious earth, unconscious sun, unconscious, earth, and notice.

Are there any in undefined centers? Are there any in white space? Here’s the good news. That is an opportunity. Those are the greatest opportunities for you if you learn to work with them. And if you had them all defined, then you probably had a little bit of an easier time. Your cross, your purpose has been pulling you probably without you having to try a whole lot, unless you were conditioned out of that at an early age, which then that’s the work you have to do.

This is how we start to work with this. I hope that you found this helpful. I hope it inspired you to go look at your chart, to go tame that stallion. That is your openness with something defined in there, something that’s calling out to you, saying, we could be great. We could be so great. You just have to have the patience to work on this with me.

I hope it inspired you to do that. Tell me what they are. Share this on Instagram. Go share it. Let me know what you thought about this episode. Let me know what your openness is. What’s the stallion that you are taming? Tell me. I would love to know. I love hearing from you guys. I appreciate you. And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must first become an unshakeable human.

So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everybody. We’ll see you next time.